I need help figuring out if this person is genuine or fooling me.
I (33f) met a guy (34m) online a month ago. We really hit it off and have been going on dates since. His background seems legit and we also have friends in common. Our dates are fun but I am realizing he has this one habit of mirroring my likes and dislikes. He doesn’t seem to have an original thought. Despite me bringing this up to him, he seems to have the exact same likes and dislikes. He is down to do whatever I want to do and whenever I’m available, he makes time/he’s free. He is all too eager to be exclusive. He texts me all the time…which I enjoyed at first but now it feels like everything is too lovey-dovey.
We have only kissed yet because I want to take things slow and also can’t help feel suspicious. I feel it’s all too good to be true. I have a past of being in toxic relationships/situationships. But I have worked very hard on myself to try and avoid/recognize them. I haven’t felt any sexual pressure from him…he is a bit awkward on the contrary. But I have felt pressure from him to be exclusive and meet each other’s friends etc…
At first I agreed because I was excited to meet someone who had the same relationship goals as me…but now I am backtracking because this is feeling weird.
Am I being too suspicious and ruining something good for myself? Or is there something seeming off about this. I’m contemplating reaching out to our common friends. I am not very close to these people so I’m a bit hesitant.
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