So I have this boss at work that I feel used to behave flirtatiously with me. We’ve worked together a while but things had always been friendly and professional. We’re close in age as well. A few months back he stared behaving totally different with me than he ever had, giving me extra attention (talking to me a bit more, hanging around a bit more, laughing hard at my jokes) which I honestly didn’t think too much about until he started boasting to me about his job position, kind of talking himself up where I started picking up on a vibe. And it all seemed to be confirmed when he started giving me “flirty”/playful looks on the sly for only me to see. He seemed to behave “normally” however when others were around. So I direct approach him about it, at work while there’s a couple others around, & he denies any flirting & acts like he doesn’t know what I’m talking about. Says he’s just “naturally friendly” and asked if he was being too friendly, & I said “yeah a little.” He makes sure he wasn’t making me uncomfortable then says those weren’t his intentions and he was just there to have a good time. I gave him the wrong impression & felt I shut it down so I could protect myself. What was all of this about & how do I mend things & get closer?
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