Hi all,
I met this guy at Oktoberfest a few months ago and we had a great time partying. Nothing physical ever happened between us it was literally just a fun time on vacation and we both found each other attractive. After the trip we stayed in touch as friends and 1.5 months later he told me out of the blue that he was living separately from his wife and has 2 kids.
This was so random I thought he was kidding but he was not as the title suggests. Jump ahead to last week he convinced to go on vacation to Asia with him for my birthday. Knowing he was SEPARATED I hesitantly agreed to go and expected that it would be a great opportunity to get to know each other better.
Well I buy the ticket and 3 hours before the time period to cancel the non-refundable ticket he tells me that he moved back into the house with his wife and kids for financial reasons and that he wants to be transparent about the situation. I was at work and tried to cancel my ticket after reading this msg but it was too late (missed the cancellation by 4 minutes!) OK so now I am going on vacation, on my BIRTHDAY with this guy who is married. He says that if we both mutually have feelings for each other that would be enough to officially leave his marriage.
I called him to say that I do not want to have any type of physical relationship with him since he is married and that we should have separate beds at the hotel. Am I being dramatic or too lax? This situation is weird as hell. Really wish he told me he was living with his wife BEFORE I bought a ticket haha.
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