Hello, by the title you already know what the topic is about, I am a 24 year old man and it is no longer the fact that I am a virgin, it is that I have never had any kind of relationship with a girl, I have not even given a measly kiss. I add that I think I'm a normal guy, I'm finishing college and I want to be a teacher in the future, I don't think I'm either handsome or ugly, and I try to go to the gym and stay active, I also have good friends and a good family, but I'm still not entirely happy because of this situation. This for me is hard to tell because I know practically no one who is in my same situation. My friends have already had their partners and affairs and I feel like the black sheep. My frustration doesn't come so much from social pressure and that sort of thing, since no one has ever laughed at me for being a virgin or anything like that. But I am very frustrated with myself for not being able over the years to be with a girl. I feel bad about myself and it affects my self esteem a lot. I also try to expand my circles and be more sociable, but for whatever reason, no girl has noticed me in the last few years. Before, curiously, I used to flirt more than now, a couple of times, but in the end I didn't go for it because I was too shy. I almost kissed a girl on the lips a few years ago at a party (she also wanted me to) but I chickened out and couldn't. That's the only chance I've had. That's the only chance I've ever had. Then well, I've been rejected a couple of times by friends of mine that I ended up liking and that hasn't helped much either. I really feel like I'm missing out on an important part of life (relationships and sex), and I don't want to do that. The most frustrating thing is that I don't know what to do, I know that these things should not be forced, but sometimes it makes me desperate, it's as if everyone can have sex but me, and I feel like a freak. Any advice is welcome, especially if it is to change this situation, I will send this post to several reddit communities to see if people come up with some ideas. I'll also add that my frustration is not so much the fact that I'm a virgin as such, but my inability to like other girls and maintain relationships with them that go beyond friendship. In advance, thanks to all of you who answer!!!!
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