I (21M) have been dating my girlfriend (22F) for about 5 months now. This is my first relationship, while she has had a few exes, so I always knew she was a bit more experienced than I was. While I sometimes have felt a bit jealous about this, our difference in experience doesn’t bother me much because I know she loves me a lot and treats me great. I trust her fully and have no concerns about her cheating on me or anything like that, because like I said, our relationship is great and I am confident that we are both fully committed to each other.
That being said, yesterday we were talking and she told me something that she had done in the past and it really hurt me to hear. It wasn’t related to infidelity, so I still trust her, it just pulled back all my insecurities over her past and her experience to the surface. Like I said, I know she loves me, but I can’t stop thinking about what she said and picturing this past experience.
It seems ridiculous to be so upset over something that happened a few years ago, and it would be crazy to break up over this. I have no desire to break up over it and am trying like crazy to forget what I heard, but I can’t. I need some advice. How can I forget about this and move past it? I’m trying to be mature and not judge her but it is still hurting me to think about.
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