I just feel so stupid. I spent a month texting this guy daily and seeing him weekly. We've been flirting since day 1 (we have a lot of mutual friends but it took bumping into him 3 times on the bus to get our relationship going). He was even very surprised I wanted to see him again and enjoyed his company after the 1st time and he kept apologizing over and over for being so nervous he doesn't know what to say sometimes. Even when we were out with both our friend groups, he kept stuck near me and apologized a few times that his attention is not just on me. We developed a high sexual tension from teasing and touching each other CONSTANTLY. And i mean a minute didn't go by without some sort of touch. we would hug for 5 minutes. Even my friends and random acquiantances noticed and asked me if we're dating. Then one night i tried to open about myself cause I felt we were progressing there, but he was just cold and ended the night with this question: "Do you have feelings for me? Because I'm not interested." Also told me to "lower" the amount of attention I'm giving him, despite him being the one to literally ask it of me. Few weeks passed and since we still have mutual friends, I decided I wanted a friendship. Bad move. We met up, he continued actively flirting, literally told me to touch his chest, carried me around and I bit his fingers. He even seemed emotionally more receptive. I didn't know what to think. Immediately we started texting again and next day I just decided to say something that could be passed off as flirty as to not waste my time. Ghosted lol
TLDR; just the usual stuff and me being extremely stupid
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