TLDR: Girl showed interest, confused whether she likes me or not.
Hi,
19M, her 19F. Both first year uni students (UK)
We are both internationals and from the same country, but met here.
We talked a bit on lectures (mostly small talk and asking abt plans), then hanged out one on one after attending some group plans.
The first time we hanged out one on one was the first ever plan we attended together. I seemed to have left a good impression on her friends. It was the first time so I did not try anything (as in did not plan on making any move)
The second time we hanged out one on one was last friday. We went to a beer/wine tasting thingy, she got a bit funny, but not completely crazy drunk. I am fairly alcohol tolerant so I was just a bit relaxed, nothing more.
The trivial part is that she asked if I wanted to eat with her at her flat (uni accommodation), I happily agreed (prior to this I was really convinced that there was absolutely no chance she liked me).
She did not have much food there so we ended up at my flat. I cooked for the both of us while we were chatting and laughing. We drank some wine in my room too.
I know, you might be thinking, "DUDE, you were alone with her drinking wine at night, WTF!!"
Yeah, but I didn't even feel the sexual tension, It felt like I was hanging with my homie, the thought of it didnt even cross my mind. I also read that the sexual tension cannot be 'imagined' both people feel it or they don't, there isn't in between. Maybe it was the alcohol, idk.
I'd like to think she does not just see me as a friend, solely off the fact that she doesn't seem interested in talking via text, as in, she dry texts when I try to start 'friend like' conversations. Therefore, I just text her to make plans, and she replies appropriately on those occasions.
She is also not this type of 'party girl', she is quite conservative, only 1 IG picture, etc. The type of girl to want some serious relationship.
Today I talked to her briefly in my lecture, I mentioned something about recognizing a girl in the street but not actually saying hi, then she said something along the lines of 'missed opportunity', not in a way of a friend saying 'dude, talk to her' more like, the jealous girl comment of 'you probably talk to 20 other girls'.
Some other miscellaneous details:
- She hits my arm playfully when I joke
- She remembers little things I told her
- She seems to be friendly in general with dudes
Please enlighten me, If you have any questions about particular mannerisms, please ask away, but give me the answer.
Does she like me?
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