When it comes to dating, one of the things that kinda confuses me is the things women prioritize when looking for someone to date. I understand that confidence is important as to not become clingy, but aside from that I don’t really see why it should be such a disqualifier for most men. If you’re someone who suffered from child abuse or something similar, you might have low self-esteem or anxiety. That doesn’t make you a bad person, just means that you struggle to open up quickly to new people, and might be quiet/shy. Which might not always be the most attractive traits, but what makes that so much worse than someone who is confident, but is lacking in other departments like kindness, intelligence, etc. Like you could have all these positive traits, but just because you’re “unconfident” you are looked at in such a different light, and I just don’t get that. What makes one end of the spectrum so much more attractive than the other end?
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