If you were engaged to someone, or in a relationship with someone who was a complete homebody and didn’t like going out, shopping, doing fun things. Had no motivation to exercise (when you’re really into fitness). Doesn’t like dressing up and going out for a meal. And when they do come out, they act awkward and it just feels like they want to go home. They have no enthusiasm. And they admitted that they prefer to just stay at home and said “well if you want to do things I’ll do it for you”. Like being with someone like this really drags me down. Would you end the engagement or relationship over this? They definitely don’t have depression. They just want to work and sleep and watch tv. He doesn’t plan anything, no dates nothing. Sex is never spontaneous it’s always regimented exactly the same 15 mins before sleeping, and only in the bed never anywhere else because he doesn’t want to spread germs anywhere. No spontaneous making out etc. I’ve stopped exercising and dressing nicely because I feel like he just drags me down to his level and makes me feel ashamed when I do get dressed up nicely.
Tldr: would you stay with someone who didn’t take any interest in doing things other than sleeping in and watching tv, no spontaneous making out and no dates
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