I (34M) met a woman (shes 32) a few months ago. When we first met, she was very enthusiastic, followed me on Instagram, flirted heavily, kissed me, and seemed genuinely interested. Went on a few dates that all went good with her texting me how much fun she had,etc.
Over time, her communication became inconsistent. At one point she disappeared for almost a week without saying anything, then resurfaced and acted like everything was normal.
Recently she went to Europe for a work conference. While there, she continued viewing all my Instagram stories, occasionally reacting to them, and communicating here and there and we talked about getting lunch/coffee when she returned.
When she got back, she messaged me and mentioned she was returning the next day.
I replied: "Great. Let me know when you're settled in and we'll see about getting that lunch/coffee."
Her entire response was a thumbs-up sticker meme.
No:
\- "Sounds good."
\- "Looking forward to it."
\- "I'll let you know."
Just a thumbs-up.
My frustration isn't that she owes me a date. She doesn't.
It's that her effort now feels completely different from when we first met. She still watches all my stories, occasionally reaches out, but when it comes to actually communicating or making plans, the effort feels minimal.
this point I'm losing attraction because the communication feels so low effort.
Am I overreacting, or does this sound like someone who likes the attention but isn't genuinely interested in moving things forward? I haven't even replied to her thumbs up meme, just feels insanely low effort.
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