I’m 19 now, and honestly, something has to have gone wrong somewhere.
I’d consider myself an average to slightly above average looking guy. I’m very social and outgoing, but contrary to that, my hobbies are all related to things done inside, or rather, alone. I play video games, I go to the cinema, I read books, I cook, and I go to the gym, but besides that I don’t really go out. I sometimes go to my friend’s house and we hang out. So I don’t really have any contact points with women.
The logical solution would be to just go out and ask women out, but the problem with that is I have a lot of anxiety when it comes to approaching women, and that goes back to that one time when I was like 14 years old. Me and my friends were at a mall, smoked some weed, and I got dared to ask a girl out. I eventually did, and she even said yes. The problem is, when I got back to my friends, the weed and adrenaline combo got to my head, everything went black, and I passed out. Worst of all, she saw it, and ever since then I haven’t gotten myself to have the courage to ask a girl out again.
So my question would be, how do I solve this? Because in all honesty, the best thing I can think of is to put myself into spaces where I’ll be able to interact with women. But I also don’t want to put myself into spaces where I don’t want to be, and to just pick up hobbies and interests because I want to date someone feels fake and wrong to me. It’s also very disrespectful to the people interested in said hobby. But honestly, I can’t think of anything better.
TL;DR
19M, average-looking, social and outgoing, but all my hobbies are solo (gaming, reading, cooking, gym, cinema) so I have basically no contact with women. I have major anxiety when it comes to approaching women. I figure the fix is putting myself in spaces where I’d meet women, but I don’t want to force fake hobbies just to date someone. Stuck on what to actually do.
Every Help and advice is much appreciated.
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