So I (26F) met this guy (28F) in university back in 2021. On a night out he expressed that he really liked me and from there we started hanging out, going on dates, and he even invited me to his family ski trip (I was sick so I couldn’t attend). This went on for about a month and he texted saying he just wanted to be friends. After that, he kept reaching out here and there and we reconnected a few months later and started hanging out again (and sleeping together) but it fizzled out after a few weeks.
Then he got a gf and every time they broke up he would reach out but disappear after a few days. I didn’t accept any of his invites to hang out because they always felt like a rebound? This happened on and off until this year and now he started texting me again and it felt different this time but as expected, he hasn’t responded in a few days. Through the years I have always just matched his energy and had my guard up but I’m wondering if that gave him the impression that I’m not interested?
I hate it because I still like him and have hope that this time could be different? I also want to call him out for his behaviour of coming back and disappearing but idk if it’s even worth it?
I guess I am just looking for any insights or advice on what I should do.
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