Hiiiiiiii, before u read it im sorry for my poor english. In my country thats like 4th language i have to learn.
Me 17M, Her 18F.
Main problems that concern me are that am ugly asf and she is like 10/10 - its my main concern .
I go to gym, do calisthenics, run, wrestling etc and shower (thats important) but im geek i watch anime, read manga, manhwa, manhua, novels (i like ri and rtoc) and i have decent achievements in academics i got award for top 20 works in country or some shi. Im very dense like black hole level. I had some crushes on me but that was quite some time ago when i was at 8 or 9 grade. But i have problem with stuttering and it intesifies when im nervous. Also im quite shors 173 or a bit more i dont konw
She is 10/10. She is smart, looks very beautiful and is quite smart, charming, and soooooo kind quite a lot of guys find her cute, beautiful, etc. I some confessed to her and she rejected them immediately. She is on shier side and dosent drink, smoke, swear. She is like fairy or angel atp. There is more like smile, attitude the way she speaks, but i dont want to seem like a creep so i will stop here. And she is the almost same height as me
I confessed to her at the start of may. I didnt ask if she has feeling back, i just asked if she wants to go out with me for a walk or some shi. She was smiling and looked flustered and happy. Btw it was awkward ASF. We ended up going for a walk and and had a good time (i think). I texted her the day after she told she enjoyed it. Later i wanted to go again but she had exams till summer. Then when exams ended we went for a walk again. After was the same as last time i asked how she felt, she liked it. And we texted for the whole time and a bit before. She gave me here playlist and its lowkey fire. There was a bit flirt btw, but more on the kindergarten lvl from both sides, so she seem to not have a lot experience too. But there are some points that concern me:
- She often checks her phone during walks, about every 50 +-10 minutes whole walk was more than 3 or 4 hours.
- Very little eye contact and her body language doesnt seem like she is atracted to me. But i had only one gf and very little female friends. And those are really just friends.
- Our hands accidentally touched, and she immediately pulled hers away.
- She is usually the first one to end conversations. I end them too to not make her think that im weak(i dont know if girls think that way). But i assume she is quite busy, but chance that my guess is correct like 20% because its summer
- Recently, our conversations have become much shorter, usually under an hour.
- She isn't very active in texting like more on defensive side but when i ask questions she replies in quite long messages.
7)She hasn't replied to my last messages (so far, twice). Maybe i should question it, i dont want to scare her but like tf my small pride is hurt.
8) When I ask "What ip?" or "What are you doing?", she usually replies with one-word answers, then asks how I am and we text more.
9) Lately she seems more distant i invited here for a walks but she dosnet want. Its rainig all the time now and im a bit sick so maybe thats why
But my main concern is 7th point
I want to ask more experienced fellows if i should ask her if she feels the same, but i dont think that we both are ready for something more. We both need a bit more time or just push or trigger in my opinion. But i woudnt mind btw even if its a bit rushed, even know a this hour.
Can somebody maybe give me some advice? Also if its even worth it? I want to grind this summer in the gym but i need to up my social skills a bit so that is also goated pratice.
Also if hugs are intimate like walking under small umbrela and hugging her is it like creepy or showing love.
P.S. If u want more info for advice feel free to ask just not too intimate a im a bit shy too.
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