met a girl at work and for the first few weeks we only had quick conversations here and there. Eventually, we had one shift where we ended up talking for hours and the conversation just clicked. I felt like there was a good connection, so I decided to ask her out.
She told me she had a boyfriend, but said she took it as a compliment. I respected that and didn’t push it. I figured the best thing to do was back off and respect her relationship and boundaries.
After that, she actually started messaging me out of nowhere and we developed some inside jokes. Eventually, the messages slowed down because I stopped initiating conversations, I didn’t want to feel like I was interfering or crossing a line.
I then went away on vacation for two weeks. When I came back, she started reaching out again, going out of her way to talk to me at work and sending me messages related to our inside jokes. It feels like she’s making an effort to keep the connection going, but I also don’t want to assume anything or put her in an uncomfortable position.
My question is: should I ask her out again, or is the ball in her court since she already knows I’m interested?
I don’t want to disrespect her relationship, but I also don’t want to ignore the possibility that she might be interested if her situation has changed.
What would you do in this situation?
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