I feel like I am stooping so low in the name of love....
I(F25) met a guy(M26) in 2021 and we kind of developed feelings for each other at the end of 2022.
Since then we were "something".
Here is what happens,
We talk to each other all the time.
We are literally a coupme just not the tag.
We are not seeing or flirting with anyone else.
I have asked him out multiple times and he had said no (i know I should have left him at that but I am effing stoopid) but later on we started talking again in like a day or two and things became normal. He later on said he does not feel ready but does not want to lose me either.
He flirts with me, talks to me, care about me (atleast I think so) but he wouldn't commit. At first I thought maybe commitment takes times and I waited. Now, after 3.5 years, there is no clarity either. And due to the entanglement, I don't date other people because I just don't see anyone but him. But there is a limit to how much I can stretch thing.
Now I am tired, I am willing to cut it off but as I was aboht to do that one of my guy friends told me that "he loves you, he just needs time".
I am not sure that I should wait or just cut ties with him...
I really do not want to throw this (whatever this is) away because I do not habe patience. But I also need to think of a future and can not be with a man who is this much confused.
Should I wait a little more (I do not mind it if there is a possibility) or am I just being a fool by not seeing the obvious?
So I really need some advice in how to approach this.
TLDR:-
Me (F25) and a guy (M26) are kind of dating each other since 2023 but he is not yet ready to make it official or commit.
I wanted to call it quits but got an advice from a friend that I am rushing and asking a lot from the guy.
What should I do in this situation and what do I think of this relationship that we have? Should I wait or call it quits?
Thank you so much.
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