i (39f) have been dating a guy (29m) for about 7 months. it started out hot and heavy , a lot of good sex , communication and time spent. things have been going pretty well.
about a month ago we had a strange interaction on the train in nyc when on an empty train a girl tried to pretty much stand in his lap while i was sitting next to him ( was like a power move). she also pulled her bra out and was like trying to have a power move over us. i never said anything to the girl but it made me visibly upset and my BF and i talked about it after. i don’t ever get jealous and this made me feel like younger girls were trying to be all over him.
since this incident we have not had sex. it’s been about a month. i have innciated several times( gave him head twice) but he never tried to have sex with me. he tried to twice and experienced Errctial desfunction. he then told me he has been having a lot of anxiety and i understood. i know this happen to men and its normal.
he has started a new job too , he also drinks a lot and is on anti-depressants. i know these can all contribute.
part of me can’t help but think it had to do with this other girl on the train ( like he was attracted to her and now he isn’t attracted to me?).
we used to have a lot of sex and now it’s none.
we have only been together 7 months so i wonder if this is worth persueing, esp since im much other than him.
help.. has this happened to anyone? we have talked about it twice now( he cried about it) and he said it has nothing to do with me. i want to be there for him
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