I wrote earlier in the week about a guy I've been seeing for almost a month now. He is tall, extremely attractive, black, great smile, intelligent, former military, and has himself together. (One thing I'm iffy on though is that he's divorced with a grown/early 20s daughter 🫤 I want marriage and kids very soon and ideally, a guy would have his first kid with me) Another iffy thing is distance: he lives an hour north of me but has met me halfway twice or at my place once.
I want to move things to the next level. I want to have a boyfriend. And I want to get physical, sexual. I spoke with him a few days earlier and he said he was ok with how things were moving. I mentioned wanting to kiss him. He texted back in a way that showed he wasn't opposed to this. So I asked when we'd meet again. He said perhaps soon, so I figured that meant this weekend. I cleared my calendar for last night (Friday) and today, although I am open to meeting on Sunday or Monday again if need be. He suggested we meet soon but didn't give me a set date or place/idea yet. I kinda hoped I would have heard from him again yesterday but I didn't. I know things come up though so I am understanding of that.Would it be forward and pushy if I texted him to check up on when this date will occur? Or should I be more patient?
TL/DR: I've been seeing a guy for nearly a month now, want to see him again, want to get physical with him, and last talked to him several days ago by text. He said he'd be up for hanging out again but didn't give me a place or day/time. It's now Saturday. Should I reach out to him to check up on plans?
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