M23 - not much experience with dates. Just been on dates 2 or 3 times.
So there's this girl - we go to the same grad school and are pursuing the same major - we have been talking since some time but suddenly out of the blue she texts saying we should hang out once. We've been planning to go out (I have been saying it - to which she agrees Everytime) but somehow everytime we planned - something came up.
Finally we got a chance - I made plans and everything went awesome, she seemed to have had fun. We didn't go dutch - it was on me and she let me pay it. When I dropped her off at home - she got out of the car while I am still inside and she asked me if she's forgetting anything. Now she only had her phone and purse on her so I dont think there was anything she was actually forgetting - did that mean something or am I overthinking? I didn't realize at that point of time though and she just said it was fun - I kind of held her hand, smiled and we parted for the night.
A week later we are talking casually and she asks me to split the bill (pay her part) to which I refuse once and say it was on me. She then replies saying OK - the next one is on her then. Is this positive? I hadn't specifically mentioned it was a date - it was her idea and I just kind of planned everything.
She isn't that active on social media but when we do talk she talks a lot in detail about anything I ask her or talk to her about. But at times it feels like she isn't trying to know me more. Kinda confused as to where this is going - and I don't want to ruin this because even though it's only been a while we've known about each other - we've been talking since more than 1.5 years but nothing too serious.
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