Where do i even begin? I feel very lonely. I have only 2 close friends but thats pretty much it. I’ve been single for almost a year now and very tired of it. The need to find someone is stronger than its ever been. I don’t meet anyone my age through work so I’m stuck with dating apps, which I’m getting sick and tired of. Swiping for hours for it to lead no where. When i do finally meet a girl that i actually like it usually ends in disappointment and this is the messed up part. When it comes to sex it takes me a few months to get comfortable enough with someone to have sex. I hate this about myself. Because i know girls want sex relatively quick (that’s just my experience). Also i feel like sex can make 2 people feel more connected with one another, and i really want that. I just get too damn nervous when I’m with someone new. It usually takes me 2 or 3 months of constantly seeing someone to get to that level of comfort to have sex. I know at my age that’s too long for a lot of girls. I’ve had 4 different opportunities to have sex between my ex and now but i didn’t do it because of my anxiety. If i were normal it’d be a different story and maybe they would have liked me more and things could have lead to a relationship but no, I’m not, and i hate it. I’m currently talking to one girl right now and i really like her. I’m just worried she’s going to stop talking to me because of this. We have hung out 6 times. I know she wants sex and i really want to be able to have sex with her because i want her to feel closer to me. But the issue is she lives about an hour away so i don’t see her frequently so the comfort progress is slow. Yes i have talked to her about it, but I’m still worried. I just want to be normal. I feel like my inability to have sex with someone i met in a week is inadvertently causing my loneliness because the girls tend to give up after a while. Maybe i should see a sex therapist. What do you guys think?
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