So I've never dated anymore before or done anything sexual with anyone. I've identified as gay since I was 16 but only recently realized I am actually asexual. I don't feel sexually attraction to anyone but I am romantically attracted to men. I have a high sex drive and can enjoy sexual activity if incorporated into heavy BDSM / kink play only. Without it I have 0 interest in sex, and it seems like from looking around here that's a huge deal breaker for many people.
Is conventional online dating really an option for me? What apps would ya'll recommend? I tried OKCupid years ago but living in a suburban area it didn't work very well because of the lack of gay people, and those that were on there were too focused on (vanilla) sex first. I live in the suburbs in between two major queer friendly cities, but I feel like a lot of guys just ignore me because I'm not on a train line or didn't want to hook up first.
Just wondering if it's even worth trying online dating or if I should stick to finding partners through BDSM communities (which aren't meeting right now because Corona) and other IRL social circles once Corona goes away. I've waited 12 years, I guess I can wait another year if need be.
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