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I am a 29 year old guy. I have a great career/well paying, traveled the world, have cool hobbies, good friends, etc. I have no desire to do anything else now except find someone to be with. I put this off for the last several years due to focusing on other things, also because I wasn't confident about dating, so it never really bothered me.
When people say things like "Oh it'll happen when you east expect it" or "Focus on improving yourself or finding new hobbies" I don't feel like I need or want to do any of that. It's not going to happen when I least expect it because otherwise it would've happened in the last several years of my 20's when I wasn't putting effort into it. I also don't feel like I need to focus on any other new goals or hobbies, this is the goal I feel I need to complete my life.
I was recently seeing a girl for 1 month from OLD. We had a great connection and instant sexual chemistry. Things were going well and I was excited to finally have something starting to work that I was actually interested in as well. Then she ghosted on me randomly after I had just seen her and everything seemed great. This took a big emotional toll on me and I have been having a hard time getting over it.
TLDR: How do I not get so invested/anxious/upset about or during dating when I feel like everything else in my life is where I want it to be as i've already accomplished a lot and finding a partner is all I want now? (I'm also not the most attractive guy because of my height so it's not super easy to get dates left and right)
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