How to know whether you just overthinking or your gut warns you to run out of a person/relationship?
So I am recently seeing this guys, and things went so well since the very first time that we meet. We just have 2 dates then he left for a business trip for a month. He is open that he prefers attachment, long term relationship, and even deleted his Tinder account later (but he told me that was for focusing on his work, not because he met me).
We keep talking like every single days, and he still shows that he interested in me, care for me tho.
However, when he came back, I was surprised that he doesn’t ask to meet me again, or even plans for that. And when I flirted with him, he seems a bit... uncomfortable? Today, I finally sent a message asking if I did anything that not appropriate, he just seen it.
This makes me very confused, and triggers a lot negative thinking. Fyi I had a very bad, toxic relationship with my ex so I easily feel insecure and (sometimes) overwhelmed by the need for attention. This is an issue that I try to work on to overcome.
But in this situation, I don’t know if it’s just about me with my insecurities that ruined everything, or there is something that’s not right? Maybe I just expected too much and fall short of him?
I intend to ask him about this, like whether he considered us as a relationship or just casual hang out. What should I could say?
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