We’d been dating casually for two months over the summer before I told him I just wanted to be friends. We’re in the same friend group and still spend a lot of time together (as part of that group). I realized recently that I’m still attracted to him.
Looking back, I think I broke it off because I felt overwhelmed. He wanted to see me more than the introvert/independent in me could handle. He also wanted me to meet his sister, and I wasn’t ready. Frankly, I’m terribly at communicating and avoid conversations that require me or the other person to be vulnerable. I’m also pretty inexperienced—I’ve never had a boyfriend before. The only pace I can handle is glacial. So I just cut and run.
I know I need to tell him all this if I’m going to ask him if he wants to give it another shot, but 1. After breaking it off, should I? Or should I just let it be? I can’t promise I can change and don’t want to jerk him around and 2. How do I even begin this conversation?
Thank you!
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