This is a serious question. This isn't a "nice guy" entitled to a relationship, phone number, or social media account for conversing with a girl. I respect whatever response she gives me at the end of a conversation, and will strive to find ways to improve to better my chances next time. Of course, ideally, I do hope for a positive outcome, and I do expect a somewhat civilized conversation if I willingly put myself in a position where I want to socialize with a girl (or anyone, for that matter), but the final response is completely acceptable by me.
I've asked out multiple girls and have made attempts to approach them in public: all to no avail.
Objectively, I'm not overly attractive, but at the same time, I don't think I'm unattractive to the point where I can be dismissed easily. Either way, I make sure to clean myself properly before I head out into public (basic hygiene): kempt hair, clean teeth, bright smile, well-fit clothes, and an accessory or two to top my outfit off. When I approach someone, I may be slightly nervous, but I'm more than capable of being able to talk through it: to the point where it should be dismissable above everything else I managed to accomplish up until that point (if confidence is an issue, I can't think of anything less confident than managing to confront an interest in public).
And, for what it's worth, I like to think that I'm not overstepping into 'unwinnable territory.' No 'dimes', '10/10s', and ESPECIALLY no one who appears to be in a relationship already: only those who I actively have an interest in and can foresee a similar response.
TL;DR- Average guy, practices proper etiquette, puts my best foot forward when introducing myself, still gets turned down (in multiple aspects). Is there anything I should be doing to increase my appeal? Or is part of approaching a woman a numbers game?
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