I (24f) am seeing someone and, for the first time in my love life, am not trying to be needy, pressuring, expecting things, taking it easy. I text him good morning or have a good day without expecting a reply and he usually calls me.
I wasn’t looking for anything but he asked to cook for me (I commented on his food he made) and we spent the ENTIRE weekend together. I slept over last night. I’ll sleep over this weekend too. I met his friends, roommate (also life long best friend) and he included me in their plans. All nice signs but....drunk him said he dated girls for 4-5 months and doesn’t want to feel pressured into anything and that he’s cut them off for feeling that way.
I do not want to pressure him but I also have enough self respect to know I am worthy of a healthy relationship and not a dead investment. We have sex but that’s not the reason why we see each other. We like each other.
With that being said- I would love perspective from the men of reddit who have this dating style. Any advice helps.
Tl;Dr dating someone who seems genuine and brings me around their social gatherings. Drunk him said he hates relationship pressure and had dated girls for up to 5 months. I can’t change anyone, I know, but what can I learn or what advice can I take for signs of a dead investment or a relationship?
Share your experiences if this is your dating style as well or if relationships are hard for you to establish. Thank you ❤️
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