Hi guys, so this is actually my first experience having a girlfriend, and we just made it official last week after dating for a month. I'll be as thorough as possible to try and give you all a good idea of our relationship.
So we both started dating in October, we recently went on a date Tuesday and it went really well. We spent the whole day together and we were basically all over each other the entire time. When we went back to her place, she decided to ask me if I wanted to make it official (after we finished lovey dovey stuff). We didn't have sex that night because she said she was on her period.
Today we were supposed to have another date, but we had a rain check because she said that she was dealing with bad cramps and that she was tired, so we canceled our plans. She mentioned that we could maybe hang out on Saturday, but I asked her if 9pm would be an OK time for me to come over because I get off kind of late. She dodged both times I mentioned this, which sort of made me anxious about the whole thing.
Me and her get along very well in person. We have very very few "awkward moments", like we click really well and conversation is nearly perfect. However, when we talk over text or voice chat the correspondence is pretty bad. I'm constantly worried that she is going to cut me off in between dates, today was the first time that she canceled a date and a friend of mine mentioned that it was weird she didn't just invite me over to hang out with her despite the PMS issues.
She has told me that she is pretty bad with responding, and that she likes her alone time a lot. I have done a good job of respecting that, but I feel like we should be hanging out more often than once a week? I'm not sure the whole dynamic feels weird, but I've never had a real girlfriend so I am pretty new to this. I'm just so afraid that I'll screw this up.
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