I (F28) went to a wedding this past weekend and ended up talking to the best man (M28) the entire night. We had tons in common and no matter where I went, I found him coming over and continuing a conversation/ just trying to be around me. He asked if I’d stay for the after party and I told him maybe, but I was so exhausted so I tried to leave without anyone noticing. He noticed and came RUNNING after my car and gave me his number. So the next day I texted him and said sorry for leaving and that it was nice talking to him, and he said it was okay and it just meant that we had to hang out sometime. So then we agreed to meet for a drink last night…. which leads me to my current confusion.
We met for a drink and we both admitted we felt like we had so much in common and really hit it off at the wedding. We got to know each other more and then ended up going back to my apartment so we could sit on the roof deck. We got pretty cuddly, and kissed a few times, and then we went to my apartment and hooked up. It was really good. We talked a bit more before going to sleep, but then his tone changed a little. I would joke and be like “we should do ____ together” and he would be like “yeah maybe”, and just using very non committal language. I have to add that to make things complicated, we don’t live in the same place right now AND I’m semi recently out of a long term relationship, so it’s not really the best time to pursue something, but I guess it seemed like he was really interested and I would be down to explore but then was being aloof and now hasn’t texted me since he left this morning!
Should I follow up with him and be like - I like you and feel like we have a lot in common and would love to keep in touch?
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