One thing that really helped me rebuild my confidence when I was going on dates was that I realized that people will treat you the way they want to be remembered. It helped me a lot when I went on a slew of bad dates and felt super lonely.
If someone ghosts you, they don’t want to be remembered as anything important.
If someone is honest and breaks it off, they want to show they’re a good communicator.
If someone is controlling and angry, they want to be unforgettable because of how they made you feel. You won’t forget how someone made you feel and that’s the point.
Dating is really rough and it’s hard to really grasp why people act the way they do. Sometimes there isn’t a real good reason, but sometimes if you’re trying to wrap your head around why someone you connected with just up and left, this can help.
Not all people are bad but they will show you your true colors. You are worth more than how they treat you! Dating sucks, but you are going to meet someone awesome who deserves you.
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