I met a girl on a dating app and we did the usual getting to know each other bit before eventually making a date. She alluded that she was free and wanted to go to a drive-in so I asked her out and we ended up getting dinner before the movie at a nice place. Date went well in my head but she later told me she couldn’t gauge me and felt like I was just getting through the date which I was surprised by..Could have been first date nerves.
Anyways, no kiss after first date but I enjoyed her company so I asked her out the following week. We did a fun outdoor covid friendly date then grabbed a few drinks around town ( all outside) it was a better vibe and we felt much more comfortable and even held hands and made out when I dropped her off.
The third date, I asked her out a few days after our 2nd and she took a day but see agreed. We went out again for dinner and drinks and got more personal with questions and the convo was flowing nice. Everything seemed to be moving really well and near the end of the night she asked if she could use my bathroom! So we went back to my place but I never felt comfortable enough to make a move so we literally watched anime for 2 hours on my bed before she said it was getting late and it was time for her to go.. I held her hand for some of it but that’s it. At the end I made a joke like wow 2 hours of watching anime and I didn’t even kiss you which led us to make out for a bit but nothing els.. feels like I dropped the ball but then again we both don’t want a causal relationship so it feels like sex on the third date would have be too soon? But The fact that she came up and sat on my bed for 2 hours leads me to believe that she would have been down had I made an actual move..
Now it’s been a few days since our date and she hasn’t texted. Nothing really new there since Iv been the one contacting her for definite dates, she agrees and then we go out that week. So I texted “hey hope your doing well have fun at that thing today” just to see if we can have a text convo without making plans and she replied with the normal thanks hope you have a good one too type text and kinda shutdown the convo there. It just feels like she doesn’t want to text me even tho when I asked her about texting she said she liked when someone checks in but not text all day everyday.
Now where do I go from here? Do I continue doing what Iv been doing or should I ease up a little to see if she’s actually interested?
I was thinking about just hitting her up on Friday and asking if she wants to grab dinner then have a few drinks at my place, kinda spur of the moment last minute plans just to see how she responds.
Or
Do I just leave it up to her and see if she reaches out? She does seem to be the type of girl who likes to be pursued but I’m unsure how she feels about me and I don’t want to push too hard..
I understand three dates is still early in dating but I do like this girl and ultimately want a relationship.
Any thoughts would be appreciated.
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