I (26 F) met a guy a few weeks ago (27 M) and we hit it off right away. Our first date was amazing and it almost scared me off a little because he kept talking about how much he already liked me and wanted to be with me.
I brushed it off and the next two dates were still really good and he still seemed very interested but it was more mutual and not as intense, which made me feel more comfortable.
We hung out again the other night and he seemed to be acting a bit quiet and distant, didn’t make a move on me, and since then we have barley talked.
He might be going through something but I don’t think anything much has changed between us. I’m just confused because he acted SO into me and now that I’m starting to like him back and develop feelings it feels as if he’s pulling away and not putting in any effort.
I like this guy and would love to continue seeing him but if he’s pulling away I’m not sure if I should reach out more and say something, back off, or just completely let it go.
I’d like to say something to see if he’s still interested without coming across as clingy or maybe I should just act like everything’s fine and just give him some space.
I know he’s super busy with work and just found out a good friend was diagnosed with COVID so maybe he just has a lot going on?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, I feel like I should give it another shot before I completed give up but really don’t want to come off as clingy or need my since it’s so fresh.
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