Hello people!
I would like help if possible. And I already apologize for the English mistakes.
Just to give context: (M28) and almost no experience when it comes to romance.
In 2018 I started a new job, there I met a co-worker (F22). We got along really well, we became friends. Then I think I must have confused things and started to like her.
I thought she might also have some feeling for me and I asked her out in the middle of 2019 (yes, I am the king of slowness). I was promptly rejected, even she said she wouldn't go out with me because she was going out to spend the night with another guy. I ended up being shaken by it and walked away from her.
As we saw each other a lot at work, and so as not to get a bad mood every day, a few days later I talked to her, said that I confused our friendship with something else and that I didn't want to lose her friendship. She accepted and we went back to having the same relationship as before.
I always continued to like her very much, but I tried to put it in my head that I will always be a friend, and I could sort of suppress the feeling and still be a friend.
I left this job this year, she is still there. We kept in touch by whatsapp, we went out to a park earlier this month, she invited (I know it doesn't mean anything).
We talk a lot, about everything. Then she said she is liking a guy. I tried to continue with the mentality of continuing with the friendship, but I realized that I can't do it anymore.
I end up being very jealous of thinking of her with someone else and I also feel very frustrated because I never managed to make her to like me.
Since we no longer have daily face-to-face contact, I thought it would be best to get away from her, as I would always have that expectation that one day something might change in our relationship.
I started to cut contact with her through whatsapp. She always sends messages, says that I've been missing lately. I try to answer as little as possible.
I don't know what the best attitude to take. I know I may be being childish for not being able to overcome my feelings to continue with the friendship. But that expectation mentioned earlier causes me a lot of sadness and frustration.
What advice can you give me, if possible?
I already thank anyone who can help me.
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