So I (27f) went on a date tonight I'm feeling a little disappointed by it. For background, I was at a bar a couple of weeks ago and the guy (33m) who owned it approached me as I was leaving and asked for my number. We arranged a first date over text which lasted nine hours. We talked non-stop and there was amazing chemistry, he even walked me all the way home to my door at 3am and seemed like a real gentleman.
I was super excited for the next date, but when he arrived tonight he admitted to being awake till seven working at his bar, drinking, smoking, doing coke (!), etc. and I couldn't help feeling a little put out by it. I feel like it was sort of disrespectful to have an evening of complete excess the night before we arranged to meet. It was going semi-okay but just before it ended he asked if I'd like to go back to his to 'nurse him back to health', which again I thought was presumptuous and not respecting my boundaries almost, especially because the conversation was pretty low-energy at that point. We parted ways with a very half-hearted kiss.
Am I being too uptight and should I give this guy another chance or should I trust my gut on this one?
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