There's this girl at Uni that I started to hang out with over the past two or three weeks. (Introduced by a female friend of mine; we're all studying the same at Uni and often study as a group and do sports together). I am positve that her and I did hit it off from the get-go but we're almost always in a group setting. She's being flirty and touchy, giggling...all that stuff and I've also been spending time with her and two other female friends outside of University (baking a cake, drinking, etc.). I haven't really been able to ask her out because there is literally no time for us at the moment with all the exams ahead of us. Plus, she mentioned this guy from Uni who she went on two dates with though she openly told me and the others that she doesn't like him in that way.
Last Thursday, we went out drinking as a group after a big exam again. She was once again flirty, touchy, etc. but then there was this third who she also seemed to have a thing for. At some point in the evening she kept going back and forth between the three of us, dancing real close, giving obvious signs and I honestly don't need any of these games right now...Anyways, her, a friend of her (female) this third guy and I ended up sleeping in a Queen-size together (no coitus). Before that, she asked me lots of questions about my experiences with girls , shared her own stories, we were holding hands. At the same time she still kept going back to Guy #3 but afterwards insisted I would sleep next to her (spooning). She even asked me once in the club if she should rather go for Guy #2 or #3 although I feel like Guy #2 isn't really an option for her....weird shit, man. She also told me she loved me, which seemed to be in a friendly kind of way.
The next day she was a bit upset about the fact the Guy #3 still had a girlfriend although he was being all flirty with her, too (not sure if anyhting else happened between them in the club) He even told me I could have her since he was still in a relationship. Her and I ended up sleeping and cuddling some more the next morning because we really needed sleep (I had an important presentation to hold)...
She keeps texting me first, gives me these stupid shit tests for my confidence girls always have and still conveys an overall flirty vibe.
Anyways...I AM CONFUSION. What should I do now? I really like this girl but don't need this whole story with the other two guys as options as well. Should I just shoot my shot with her the next time we go out or just leave it? - If you have any questions concerning the story I'll gladly fill you in.
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