Hi!
I've been seeing this guy for about three months now. He is working on a project in my city, so he has super insane work hours (usually 10-12 hours a day, from monday until saturday) and then he gets off for two weeks at a time, where he usually travels back to his hometown, which is a 5 hour flight from where I live :/.
When he is here we are seeing each other pretty much whenever we can, about 5 nights a week and we usually spend the whole sunday together. I feel like we are getting along great and I know that I am in love with him, but I dont really know how he feels.
He constantly says things like "I am so happy that I met you" or "I like so much being with you" and when he is gone he tells me a lot that he misses me and wants to be with me.
However, it is my birthday in a month and it is during one of the weeks where he gets off work, so he has a flight to go back home. He told me that he would come back for my birthday so we would get to spend some days together before he has to work again. But today he said that his firm already booked the flights and he can't change them anymore.
I asked him if he could try talking to them but he said he doesn't want to.
The flights to come back arent super expensive, we sometimes spend more money on dinner at a restaurant. I dont want to ask him to book one because I think that idea has to come from him, since its not my money.
I got hurt by guys before and I am super scared that I'm just not as important to him as he is to me. I would rather end things now than making a fool of myself. I even told him before that I was sad because a lot of my close friends can't come to my birthday. So he must not care about my feelings?
How do I talk to him about this without seeming like an entitled brat?
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