This guy (36) and I (29F) have a very complicated backstory. I’m going to try to keep this post short, and focus on what happened yesterday. Through text, I told this guy how I was feeling. I told him I had feelings, and I didn’t want to be taken advantage of (not sexually, again... very long story). He admitted he liked me too, but his life is complicated right now. Which it definitely is... there’s a baby involved and baby mama drama, and it’s a whole thing. I told him I wasn’t looking to jump into a relationship, and I just wanted to expand on what we already have and take the time to get to know each other to see if there’s more there before meeting his daughter (because he keeps saying over and over again he wants me in her life). Obviously I want to do what’s best for her, which is why I decided to have this conversation. I told him to just sit on what I’m saying, and respond when he’s ready.
It’s been more than 24 hours, and I don’t want to push him. I’m going to give him some space to think about what I said. We have a date planned this weekend for Saturday, and I’m not planning on saying anything until Friday so he’s had the majority of the week to think.
I’m just wondering what the hell is going through his head. Should I be worried he hasn’t responded? Is he trying to think of a way to let me down easy? Is he genuinely thinking about trying this?
[link] [comments]
from Dating Advice https://ift.tt/2GVUzhq
via IFTTT
No comments:
Post a Comment