I know there's a billion other topics like this, so I apologize in advance
So I met this girl through a mutual friend of mine a few months ago at a workshop. We were both visiting the city, so we talked a bit about what to see there and she invited me to tag along with her to visit an art gallery the next day. I took this as a friendly gesture and went along with her.
After this, we went our separate ways (she lives on the west coast and I on the east coast), only occasionally talking online. This last weekend, I got the chance to see her again at a convention in her city. We had more time to hang out this time, along with our mutual friends. I noticed during this time there were a few times where she would pat/slap me playfully in a way that I didn't see her do with the other guys. However, she is a very friendly/extroverted type of person, so I wasn't sure what to make of it.
The day after the convention, I had some extra time to tour the city so after walking around bit, I decided to ask her if she was free for dinner (our mutual friends had gone home and she was the only person I knew in the area). She agreed, and upon arriving at the restaurant we were greeted with a 40 minute wait time. The receptionist told us we could just sit at the bar, but she said she was fine with waiting. We spent the next 40 minutes just walking around the city block before being called back to eat. We ate and talked for about 2+ hours about a variety of things like jobs and politics.
I actually wasn't thinking of it as a date at the time, but thinking back on it in retrospect, I should have made it clear, so now I'm a little confused about her feelings. My own thoughts are that there might've been some interest because it seems strange to me for a girl to agree to a one on one dinner with someone she's basically only met twice. On the other hand as I mentioned previously, she seems like a very social person so I can't tell if she's being overly friendly.
Any outside perspective is appreciated. Thank you.
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