Last night my girlfriend asked if something was bothering me. I told her that I had a feeling she was talking to someone else, and that she had been acting different to me lately. She asked for some examples of her acting out of the norm.
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She started eating healthy out of nowhere because of some program going on at her sister’s work. I asked her if she would ever work out to which she replied “NEVER. I hate working out.” The next day she tells me that she’s going to work out. I brought up the fact that she said she would never the day before, and she said she changed her mind. She’s working out at home because she told me she doesn’t like working out in public in front of people. She told me she wants to gain confidence because she feels she doesn’t have any, though I always compliment her.
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She seems more protective of her phone. She turns it face down more than face up, ringer is usually on except for when she goes to bed. She takes naps with her phone, usually keeps it close but doesn’t ever really turn the screen from me. I asked her about this and she offered me her phone to look through. Her passcode is her birthday, she was willing to let me look through it. I told her I didn’t want to do that. She also said that if it’s because of her having guy friends on Snapchat it’s no different than me having female friends on Snapchat, which I do.
She was cheated on in her last relationship this past February. She looked at me and said, “I was cheated on, I know how it feels, why would I do that to you? I would never in a million years.” She was crying a little bit, she also said it’s apparent that I don’t trust her.
I tend to over analyze a lot of things in general, considering this is my first official relationship I really get anxious and paranoid about things, and insecurity arises too. I apologized for making assumptions and we made up and had a good rest of our night. That was that.
I just don’t know if I’m totally being played or if I’m creating an issue out of nothing. I don’t want to push her away.
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