Good evening y’all. I (M20) have been talking to this girl (F20) for about a month now. For the past month I’ve been trying to score a date only to be blown off every time with excuses such as being “busy” or “working” or whatnot. Last night when I was texting her about tomorrow’s date, she told me that she was seeing someone else. Our conversation was brief so I’m going to copy and paste it:
Her: I’m really confused at the moment. I’m kinda seeing someone but I don’t think it’s going to work out but I don’t want you to think I’m going to lead you on but I’m down to hang out if it’s not a date I’m really sorry
Me: Ah. I see
Her: It happened very suddenly and it was unexpected
Me: What happened suddenly?
Her: This person that I’m somewhat seeing
Me: Well, I’m sorry for bothering you then. See you around I guess
Her: I’m down to hang out sometime still I just didn’t wanna make you feel some type of way
Me: I mean, I’ve only been trying to catch a date with you for over a month now. And this is obviously news to me.
Her: I know I’m sorry.
Me: Well. Good luck then. Hope things work out.
Her: Thank you. And I’m sorry again. I’m just confused. But I hope you have a good night 😕
Me: Thing is, I don’t waste time. If I find something worth investing my time into, I will continue to invest. Otherwise, I wouldn’t bother.
Her: Okay I get it I respect it. That’s why I wanted to tell you before we hung out. I was still down to see you but I suppose there’s no point
Me: Well, I wish I’d had known sooner. But it’s ok. There’s nothing to be confused about. I’m sorry if I came a bit strong but I don’t like chasing the wind
Her: It’s okay
And that was it. The reason why I am confused about how I feel about the way I reacted is because part of me says there may have been a glimmer of hope but another part of me feels like I dodged a bullet and a world of pain so that felt good. Especially when telling her how I felt. I don’t know whether or not my confidence has gone up or down either. I need some advice on how to look at things so I can improve for next time. Thank you.
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