My (m,20) girlfriend (f,21) has plans to get married and have kids, I'm the exact opposite. I've told her about it, yet she still wants to be with me and I don't know how to feel about it.

We've been together for 3 years and things are great for the most part, however, when a conversation about marriage and kids come up and I express how I have no desire for either but wouldn't mind having a partner for life. She doesn't exactly get upset about it but rather brushes it off thinking I'll change my mind somewhere along the line, which isn't happening. She and I have conflicting goals for the future and I've stated several times if it bothers her we can just end things between us, yet she still wants to be with me. I'm not exactly sure how to react to this because it makes me feel like I'm on a ticking time bomb with no actual way to handle it if/when it blows up into a problem

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