After a few years of on and off dating attempts coming out of a marriage I [32M] didn't think I would feel so amazing about a person but almost two months ago I did. I did my best to keep my emotions in check because I didn't want to scare her [31F] off Haha. But it was pretty quickly apparent i was extremely invested in fast way. I haven't said I love her because I'm still afraid I haven't rediscovered what that actually is but I WANT to say it. Luckily I haven't. She just had a big conversation with me telling me she's not into monogamy which I suspected because we haven't talked about exclusivity and she didn't want to lead me on. Yadda yadda, I told her I have a lot of love to give and I had been wrestling with telling her that I wanted to give it to her. And she said a serious relationship isn't off the table but that covid and a few other things were hindering her decision making. Ive been happier than ive been in a long time and I told her I would accept and give what she was capable of giving and receiving. I want to say that and mean no strings attached beyond what she feels if she feels she wants to develop this further but I don't think in my heart that i can honestly keep that promise.
Should I distance myself to save myself from getting crushed or do I stay the course?
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