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Sunday, November 1, 2020

Voice Notes vs Text

Hey guys. Been using online dating for a while and in the past, ive had lots of convo's fizzle out in the texting phase (after exchanging numbers). After a while, i started using voicenotes and i noticed a big change, the convo seems way more meaningful and interesting. I feel like you can tell a lot about a person by the way they speak, their confidence, sense of humor, and just overall vibe. .

When i get a girls number on Hinge or Tinder, i will always send a voicenote as the first message, and since ive had success with this, i may imply in a playful and non pushy way that it would be great for them to try it too. I do this bc i know our chances of actually having a meaningful convo are way higher if we both do it.

A couple days ago i had a nice convo with a girl on tinder, we had some good banter and she was sarcastic and playful, she gave her number and i sent the first voice note - she seems to like it but followed up with a text. Here's the problem - it was a turn off to me. I told her she should try it and she say she prob wont but we could have a phone call. I appreciate that she offered a more personal alternative but i found myself turned off by this total unwillingness to even try to voice note.

im getting to the point now where i dont want to text. Part of that is bc i know its not productive , people dont have the time to really put the effort into it, and also - i watched this TedTalk once that said "texting is the death of communication" when it comes to dating. It really resonated with me, and i agree.

Anyone have any feedback on this topic? Curious to see what you guys think

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