My last 4 boyfriends all ultimately turned out to be selfish, cold, manipulative and egotistical. They all complimented me, were handsome and charming, affectionate, constant open communication and acted super kind at the beginning. I’m lost on how to trust that someone is genuinely into me or just building me up to get what they want and first sign of trouble or them not getting exactly what they want, they run away or start acting cold. Feels like they are building me up in a calculated way just to drop me when things aren’t convenient for them. Sometimes I feel like a place holder until someone better comes along.
I was raised by a narcissist mom and an absent and somewhat co dependent dad. I just can’t seem to break the cycle. I don’t event know how terrible they are until it’s too late. I’ve already dated them for 6 months to a year, fallen in love and ultimately think I’m going to build a life with them. Then inevitably something goes wrong in my life and I ask for support, help or more commitment and they drop me. Most of these men were thoughtful, went out of their way to remember things that were important me or did very nice things which made me feel cared for until one day the honeymoon was over and they started to act cold.
Why am I attracting these type of men and how do I stop? How do I know if someone is genuinely into me without wasting so much time?
TLDR: I keep dating manipulative men and can’t seem to meet/date healthy people
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