Hey I'm 25f have never dated anyone, never kissed, never held anyone's hand, nothing at all. I really want to at least try to find a relationship after many failed attempts (I stopped trying 9 months ago and decided to try again last week).
Recently decided to try online dating. Joined Bumble. Matched with some people, thought one of them was really cute and from his profile seems like we share some important values, hobbies, etc. Exchanged a total of 2 messages with him 2 days ago and have since been imagining a life together and waiting for him to reply and thinking of what im going to say next, like an IDIOT.
Checked the app to see if he replied after 2 days, noticed it says he deleted his account. Felt really sad over it and like I had actually lost something even though I DONT KNOW THIS PERSON.
I have burned myself out while trying online dating in a similar way before. How do I stop being such an idiot. Is this because nobody has ever liked me before, so literally any male attention feels like I am finally experiencing love??? Am I that pathetic lol. Will this eventually stop happening once I briefly date someone or have a fling or something and get it out of my system
Pls help me y'all, your girl is an idiot
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