I was dating this guy earlier this year till he said he just wanted to be friends. I was cool with it as I felt also like our relationship was more of a friendship than anything. We only “dated” for about 2 weeks and I really felt nothing kissing him but didn’t want to tell him until the night before we broke up when I actually did feel some sort of spark.
Fast forward to now. I’m really okay with us being friends , we’ve become close and way more comfortable and fun with each other. I really like having him around . The only thing I’m confused on is why he basically acted so off from me when we were dating and that the vibe was strange. He would kind of ignore me and felt like he didn’t want to talk to me. Now he texts me like every day and I don’t initiate most of out conversations like I used to. He is even really wants to come back home with me for New Years and we now have flight tickets together.
So here is the question . Was basically becoming his friend and doing what he wanted and putting him on that friendship level where I ignore him most of the time if I’m busy like I do my friends and not treat him like he’s my boyfriend actually make him want me more now because I feel like he is flirting with me a lot too now and I don’t know what to do because we are “just friends” I thought. I really want to keep him as my friend too I think because I thought that he was right and we wouldn’t work out romantically and I was trying to force it. I’m just so confused and hope he isn’t into me that way because I don’t also want to mistake it and mess up our friendship.
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