Would it be a negative point. Everything I wish for most girls and women is, to give the man a chance to open up to her and to actually communicate, get to know, why he does what he’s doing, basically the real him.
Introversion is like two layers. The outer is what you see and I have most of the time no clue, how I appear to other people. I can be seen cold or nerdy or dreamy or...
The inner layer is full of thoughts, adventures, story’s and emotion. I would love to let the woman be part of them, but I can’t. I have no chance, because the woman see my outer shell, maybe she find out, I live in a house in the countryside and hate countryside and makes her own opinion about me and decides to ghost me or it’s a red flag or whatever🤷🏻♂️
It is really hard, to show the woman why I am who I am. I mean, I always thought, woman are more emotional, feelings related. But after 1 year dating, I feel indifferent about that. I say one maybe bad verbalized sentence, and she runs away.
This is of course no generalization!! There are lots of wonderful and lovely women out there, who want a man who’s maybe masculine, has a good job, takes it seriously and is humorous and give them time! to really open up and get to know each other. The last sentence is what I miss in today’s dating 🧐🤷🏻♂️
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