Just a little back story here. I met a girl on hinge, we're both 22, we really kicked it off.
In the last month and a half, we maybe went out like 6/7 times, we had s3x 5 of those times. Sorry if tmi, but it's just to give you all a basis of what's going on. When in person, she does stuff like call me hot, kiss me a lot, we cuddle a lot, did some activities before like cooking, go to store and she cuddles on me at store, etc.
Okay, so that brings me down to this now. She is a full time college student. She has recently started a job the other day, and working quite a bit now. I asked her if she wanted to go to a concert with me next month and she said "no thank you"
She told me before her biggest thing for her was communication, so I asked her if she lost interest, so we're both using our time well you know.
She said pretty much said this "It's not that I lost interest, it's that I lost the time. You're nice, sweet, thoughtful, and funny but I can't handle another person right now. I just can't do this, school, and a job all right now. Schools amping up and I'm having a hard time to rebalance everything and can't do that until I get more of a schedule. My life just blew up and im fighting through it and cant promise hanging out"
Which of course, I understand. I pretty much told her no i totally understand, I hope you don't think I think you me anything, and that we just told each other before we enjoy each others company. If you don't have time that's okay, and when your work cools down, and when you're out of school in a month in a half for the summer, maybe we can see where we're at then?"
She pretty much then said " Let's do that if you're okay with it. Seeing where we're at in the summer"
I'm usually pretty good at reading if a woman is truly interested, or not interested. To me it seems genuine, and still a connection. She likes to use "Snapchat" which i don't like at 22 but oh well, but she always replies to me within like 10 minutes to an hour, always pretty much, I assume a girl who isn't interested at all wouldn't reply this fast, let alone reply at all/leave me on delivered hella long.
But please, tell me how this sounds to you all
TLDR: Would you wait on a person you truly liked?
thank ya
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