Let me start with the fact that I was in a relationship from the time I was 15 to 29 and that is really the only real relationship I had (he passed away). The rest, after, have been “situationships.”
The guy I like(d) is a friend (30M) and his last two relationships have been w women that I would describe as toxic and manipulative. I have never been that way and honestly my own brother calls me naive and too nice. He even says I’m a masochist.
Last night I finally confessed my feelings to my friend after a year of knowing him and he confirmed that he only likes me as a friend— and now what I’m seeing is a pattern. I act so fucking sweet and like a damn puppy dog when I truly like someone. A true “simp,” if you will. I think the real issue is that I am TOO agreeable— I’m too nice, I’m too giving, too soft, and men are not into that. At least not the ones I like. How do I become more assertive and less meek? Idk how to even start w that.
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