So I (19f) am a college student and was at a party on the other night where there was a guy I like (20m). I don’t know him super well but have talked to him in passing a few times. I just think he’s cute, but he is pretty introverted and kind of awkward. I decided to just say ‘fuck it’ and went up to him and said “I have a big crush on you” and he was really flustered and basically just said thanks and I appreciate that but I’m emotionally unavailable. Drunk me just accepted it and was like cool thanks for your honesty and I still think you’re cool and we should be friends and walked away. After sobering up I was thinking how weird that phrase was in that context. I would have rather he just said ‘I’m not into you’ and be done with it. At first I thought it was his way of letting me down easy, but I also am wondering if maybe he misread me and assumed I wanted to go on a date with him or that I am looking for .a relationship. I just wanted to hook up and part of me is wondering if that was his way of saying I would just hook up with someone but don’t wanna date. So I guess I’m wondering if that approach sounded like I wanted to date him and that that scared him away a bit? Anybody got tips on how a girl should approach a guy at parties so that next time I’m in this situation I do it a bit better? Thanks :)
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