I (M22) met this guy (M22) in a class last semester, where we would occasionally chat and hang out. I officially asked him out last month, and we had a series of really great dates. While I usually initiated these dates, he initiated our first kiss and our first intimate situation.
About a week ago he ended a date we were on kind of abruptly, then disappeared off the face of the planet for a few days. By that I mean messages weren't going through to his phone and he was completely absent on all social media. I sent him one text asking if he wanted to get together again sometime that week. I was confused and worried when he didn't respond for days.
When he did eventually reply, he apologized for being out of commission and told me that he was "busy this week, but maybe another time." He also assured me that he was okay despite dropping off the map for a few days.
This transpired last Tuesday. In the week that followed I felt very twisted up inside. I couldn't decide if he really was going to be busy the whole week or if he suddenly realized he didn't want to be with me anymore. I had begun to really like this guy and honestly thought he felt the same way. I kept thinking about all the laughs and sweet conversations we had had, the tender intimate moments.
All the advice I've received so far has told me to just move on. And part of me understands this and really wants to just move on. But another part of me just can't comprehend how and why this guy would leave me like this, without even an explanation.
I'm afraid that I got too attached too quickly, but this is the first time I've ever felt this way about someone. I was so sure he liked me. I'm still having a hard time accepting that he doesn't want to see me anymore. I would give anything just to sit down with him face-to-face and talk through everything.
I want to move on, but only if I'm sure there's no chance. And I'm not sure at all.
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