Hello guys, I get very anxious when talking about this. As the title says, I am an 18 year old straight guy and I pretty much suck at flirting. Completely.
So to give you some context, I have kissed 3 girls in my life and just one of them was a pleasant experience. Never had sex and I have never been in a relationship with anyone, but I have gone on a couple dates.
I don't know what's wrong with me. I like to consider myself a kind person, but I think my main problem is that I am not able to express attraction for others, even if I do feel it.
What I am trying to say here, is that I don't know how to talk to girls in that way. I suck at generating attraction, so I'll usually end up with them trying to be friends.
When I noticed this happening, I realized I had to start being more flirty. And every single person I know says "I wouldn't say that kind of thing" when reading my texts with a girl. My friends keep talking about their experiences and I just feel devastated. I get frustrated when I see good relationships, because I know that I have never been in one.
TL DR; I am 18 and have little to no experience with dating. I find it hard to express attraction to girls which usually leads to them thinking I want to be friends. When I do express attraction, people say they wouldn't do it that way. And all my friends keep sharing their experiences, which makes me very anxious.
Thank you for reading, I know it's not very well organized, but everything helps.
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